I Had A Strong Resentment For Gedoni The First Week After My Childbirth, BBNaija’s Khafi Opens Up

BBNaija Pepper Dem star, Khafi, has spoken on childbirth and how it affected her feelings towards her husband, Gedoni Khafi noted that she felt a strong resentment for Gedoni for about a week after childbirth when she saw him having drinks with friends.

According to the new mum, it felt like she was doing it all by herself while her husband was out having drinks with people.

BBNaija Pepper Dem couple, Khafi and Gedoni, have updated fans on their relationship now that they have a child. In a new YouTube video, Khafi shared some of her struggles with childbirth and how it affected the way she saw her husband.

According to the new mum, she felt a strong resentment for Gedoni for more than a week after giving birth to their child.

BBNaija’s Khafi admits she resented Gedoni after childbirth.

Khafi explained that she felt so hurt to be doing it by herself while her husband was going out and having drinks with friends.

The new mum added that it felt so unfair and she felt so upset that her husband appeared to be living his best life while she felt like a train wreck. In her words: “The first week, or even maybe more than that, I actually had a really strong resentment to you. I was so hurt that I was doing this by myself and I think I was seeing you, going out, and having drinks with friends.”

Gedoni on the other hand noted that he couldn’t remember going out for drinks with friends and Khafi cut in that he posted videos on his Instagram stories. Not stopping there, Khafi noted that how men treat their women during pregnancy determines a lot of things because they are in their most vulnerable state.

She said it would determine if the relationship will continue and how their women would continue to love them. Khafi said she felt everybody else was living their lives while she was feeling trapped. According to her, it wasn’t till the fourth month before she actually started to appreciate that she was now a mother.

See the video below:

Internet users react, see few of the comments from social media users below:

Chisom_sommie: “Na thier way … most Nigerian men are emotionally absent when you need them.. even if you talk from now till tomorrow they will still not understand.”

Barakaho1: “It happens, a lot of women feel this way , even when the man is around , shes just being honest.”

Seun974: “Hmmm…. why wait till now to say this? This are conversations couples should have in private.

Source: Instagram

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