I know some single ladies living alone might want to disagree with me. Well…..i’ve lived alone as a single lady in the past, so i’m speaking from experience.

When you’re living alone, your chances of being promiscious is quite high. Most single ladies take this decision because they want to be independent and free from being monitored or controlled by their parents.

They want to go out when they like, keep late night out with friends, go clubbing and partying, without being worried of what dad or mum might say. That feeling of freedom makes them relaxed & vulnerable.

However this is not good for a single lady that is hoping to settle down anytime soon.

When a man visits you as a single lady living alone, his chances of sleeping with you all the time is quite high, because you’re both alone whenever he comes. You might never get to know his real motives. But if he visits you at your parents house, it will be different, he will become more commited, especially when he gets to interact with your parents often.

I’ve had instances back then with guys i never had anything to do with coming into my house and they just wanted to stay till the next morning. One was my church member, and the other guy was my neighbour at my office area.

They were both just trying to take advantage of the fact that i lived alone.

Living alone can be really peaceful and it makes you independent, because you get to fend for yourself, but nevertheless, if you must indulge in it, don’t live completely alone, bring in your sister or brother to live with you.

But generally speaking, a lady that lives with her parents even though she’s quite rich would be seen as more responsible.

My advise for the single ladies is for them to remain in their parents house till they get married.