Nigerian Man Takes His Daughters To Lunch Date Because Some Nigerian Girls Sees It As Luxury, Says He’s Teaching Them The Basics Of Life Early

A young Nigerian man named Kelvin Onovo on Facebook has shared the reasons he takes his daughters on lunch date regularly. Kelvin noted that most Nigerian girls sees it as luxury and he just want to teach his daughters that lunch date are the basics of life.

Sharing photos with his daughters on Facebook, he wrote:

“I regularly take my daughters on dates because I’ve noticed something
Some girls in this country see ordinary dates or outing as luxury.

Me, I’m trying to teach my girls the basics of life early, so no man will use shawarma to impress and manipulate them.
And to be honest, it’s not even expensive to take your daughters on dates.

My mum taught me this.
That’s why exposure matters.
We weren’t rich growing up, but my mum made sure we had small life.
She made sure we experienced what they call “luxury” now even if it was just once in a while.

I’m always happy when I see men at Shoprite or restaurants with their daughters.

You don’t need to break the bank.
Even if it’s one child at a time take them out.
Call it a proper date.
Teach them how to behave on dates.
Show them what respect looks like.
And show them they deserve are worthy of love early.

A lot of girls are misbehaving today not because of poverty but because their childhood lacked the basic things.
The things we didn’t teach or expose them to are now being weaponized against them.

A man taking you out isn’t a license to touch you.
If your father gave you small outings growing up, you won’t see date night as a ticket to open leg.

A man buying you a phone or gift doesn’t mean it’s time for you to travel to Jerusalem with him.

Your father can do these small things too.

Dear men:
🔹Always buy your daughter a gift.
🔹Always take them out.
🔹Always sit them down and teach street sense.

Because what you fail to do for your daughter, someone will try to do it for N20k and ala ya van van van on top.

If I tell you that Ana eji because of chicken and pizza na ala some girls Ihe na adiro mma you won’t believe it.
How much is that kwanu.

Don’t allow a boyfriend take the role of a father and use that and take advantage of your daughter

Let’s preach this one.

Source: Kelvin Onovo| Facebook

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