Lady Shares Reason She Developed An Amazing Relationship With Her Mother-In-Law

A young lady named ASA Chiboy on Facebook has shared the reason she developed an amazing relationship with her mother-in-law on Facebook.

ASA Chiboy shared a touching story on how her mother in law lost her husband quite early and she had to raise her 4 kids alone.

ASA Chiboy noted that, she doesn’t want her mother-in-law to go through any stress or deprive her of the happiness she gets from her son financially.

In her words;

“My mother in law lost her husband quite early.

As a matter of fact, my husband barely remembers his father and his two younger sisters does not have any memories of him at all.

This is for you to know how early he passed.

My mother inlaw I’ll say, single handedly raise 4kids all by herself with the help of some of her relatives.

As a Nigerian woman or an African woman, who is married and have children, you should understand what it means.

She went through a lot of Emotional trauma and financial difficulties which is very common with widows in this part of the world.

My mother inlaw have told me stories, she has shared really PERSONAL STORIES with me and because I am a woman, I promised myself that I will support her as much as I can.

I promised myself that I WILL NEVER BE IN THE WAY of my husband being there for her and my sister in-laws, because before I came, all of them have been there together and have gone through a lot together as well.

She has to ENJOY the fruits of her Labour cos she deserves it.

I speak on her behalf even when she is not there, I make sure my husband fulfills his obligations to her as her son, If she wants something, she will get it.

If she asks my husband for something and he is being reluctant for one reason or the other, I step in and advocate for her.

My husband is OUR BREADWINNER but guess what, that bread will continue to be ENOUGH for myself, my children, my mother in law and my sisters in law.

He will never run out, it will always be able to go round and that’s my prayer everyday.

There is absolutely no need for any type of drama and if any tries to come up which happens once in a while, I know how to handle it so it doesn’t get out of hand.

I am woman, my mother inlaw and I are both women who were married from elsewhere into a particular family, therefore we share some similarities- we both left out birth families to become a member of another family, so instead of being at logger heads, we came together and we are now formidable.

My mother inlaw will call me and ask if my husband is there, if I say yes and she doesn’t want him to know what she told me, she will tell me she will call back.

While my mother inlaw and I are close, I know she loves me BUT she still won’t choose me over her son, it’s NATURAL and it’s OKAY.

We are both Nwanyi anutalu anuta so no need for too much drama.

Again, I really want my husband to Live very Long for me, therefore I try my best to make sure that I shield 🛡️ him from unnecessary drama that comes with women.

I need him to be mentally sound always, Life out there is hard and being a man is with a lot of responsibilities is already difficult and I don’t honestly want to add to that stress.

Let it be that he is thinking of how to make money, rather than also thinking of how to make peace between his wife, mom and sisters.

You may not hear this everyday, but PEACE comes with ALOT of sacrifices from everyone involved.

We can all live in peace and harmony, no need for drama cos life is too short, and the mere fact that no one knows when he or she will leave this world should serve as a huge reminder to all of us.

Both mother Inlaws, daughters in laws and sisters in law should always try to live in peace.

Will there be issues from time to time? Absolutely, but all of you should quickly put your differences aside and forge ahead.

Uso bu enete aghara.

My mother inlaw and I 👇🏾❤️😍

Source: ASA Chiboy| Facebook

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