I Became The Bad Person In My Family When I Started Saying ‘No’ To Financial Requests From My Relatives— BBN’s Phyna

Reality star Phyna has emotionally opened up about how constantly giving money to family members after winning Big Brother Naija allegedly left her drained and unappreciated.

Speaking during a live session, the reality star admitted that she initially believed she was doing the right thing by helping everyone around her.

“I thought I was helping my family sort out things. I thought I was normal. No money they call, na so I dey share am like mumu,” she said.

According to Phyna, none of the adults around her ever encouraged her to invest or save her money.
“All of them, all the adults, nobody say, ‘Ah, Phyna come now. How much be that wey dey your hand? Come do small thing.’ Nobody was interested in me investing.”

She went on to recount how different relatives constantly came to her with financial demands.
“This one say her husband d+e, make I give her 1 million for her husband. This one say he want do borehole. I know how many boreholes I did for them?”

Phyna revealed that the problems allegedly started the moment she began refusing some requests.

“The moment I started saying no like this, na there I have problem. That’s been the beginning of my problem.”

She also referenced a past family issue involving roofing materials, saying her first major disagreement came after she declined to buy an expensive roofing option for her father.

“No, I cannot buy this particular roofing, it’s too expensive, Daddy. Let’s buy another roofing.”

The BBNaija winner said she eventually realized her money was running low and started cutting down on how much she gave out.
“Somebody will ask for 1 million, I’ll say, ‘Okay, wait, let me give you 500,000.’”

Phyna further reflected on how she was treated before fame, claiming many people around her never believed she would succeed.
“They go dey say me, I no go reach river before I fetch water. Say I go carry belle. Nothing good.”

Source: Instablog

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