Shared by an anonymous.

I just want the young girls out there to learn from my story. No matter how your emotions take the better part of you, try and guide it. I met my boyfriend in school few years ago, we were so in love. When we graduated from school, God favored us, we didn’t look for job for too long after our NYSC. My boyfriend got a job in an oil company, i equally got a job a good job that came with accommodation.

We decided that we were going to start our life together. My boyfriend told his people he wanted to marry me, they insisted that he impregnates me first, i loved my boyfriend so much, i didn’t want to loose him, and so i agreed.

We tried incessantly but i never got pregnant. My boyfriend left me, and it was so devastating. I didn’t know how to cope, i became so emotional. I did not want to give any guy a chance again, but when a married man approached me, i felt it was better since i won’t be emotionally attached to him. But that was where my mistake started, i got pregnant for this married man, i became confused, same me that could not conceive for my boyfriend.

Abortion was obviously out of the question, i had my baby girl.
I know a lot of young girls that do the same because they experienced heart break, it will only destroy your future.

God was faithful, he brought my husband and i didn’t end up as a single mum.

Elora Akpotosevbe