When two people are in love, things will fall into place naturally.

Please if you find yourself indulging in the following activities, then you must be desperate and in a messed up situation already.

1. If a man asks you to move into his house and assist him cook, clean and wash. Please don’t move in. You can help him with cleaning only on weekends. Don’t live with him, if you try it, he’s never going to marry you. Your chances of giving him the cookies every night is quite high. He gets to know all your weakness. The chances of becoming his bride is a mirage.

2. Don’t try to trap him with pregnancy you both never discussed about in the first place. Maybe your aim is to make him marry you real fast. It doesn’t end well most times. If that pregnancy comes in when he has not fully made up his mind that he would love to spend the rest of his life with you, then you’ve just suceeded in trapping him. He might not be happy in that marriage much later.

3.This is the part that inspired the write up. This is Africa, not the Western world. Don’t ever try to engage your man. When you do this, you’re just acting the man here, and also being desperate. You’re not the one to sponsor the wedding so why should you propose to a man. It means you’re telling him you’ve taken charge. It doesn’t usually end well, if peradventure he says yes, and you both get married.
When you’re both caught up in hassles or a fight, he will remind you that you forced the whole marriage thing on him, and such words can be quite hurtful.

Love doesnt force, is not in a hurry and love waits. Remember marriage is forever.