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Lady Narrates How She Got Pregnant For Another Man After She Was Shamed In Her Marriage

Lady Who Was Called Barren In Marriage Gets Pregnant For Another Man

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MY TEST AND TESTIMONY

Am here to encourage us through my story… 7yrs ago i met a gentle man through a sist and a friend, she introduce me to her brother, bcus dis friend of mine was staying with us here in Lagos for years as sisters not friends.. So when the brother came back from the north after some years, she called me and said ah, IFEOMA come make we go my village dat my brother wey dey north dey return, me I answered her and said, don’t worry If I finish with the program I have around Enugu I will branched, bcus I am also a gospel artist.. After the program I went to their village with my sister, on getting there bros see me just liked me immediately.. He told me and I told my friend, my friend laughed and said I know sey u go like ifeoma she’s always friendly and lively, very fun to be with.

The bros no come let me rest ooo, bros started calling every day dat he must marry me ooo, hmmm, I told him to calm down lets get to know each other 1st, bros said ok, and invited me to Maiduguri, bcus dat where his based… Hmmm, my people Maiduguri oooo, I called his sister my friend and told her, ur brother invite me to go visit am oo, she said no wahala, I was telling her everything bcus I feel I owe her dat since I met him tru her.

My people na so I gather courage and travel to Maiduguri for the very 1st time in my life ooo..

When I got to Maiduguri I stayed for 2weeks, trying to get to know bros oo, but come and see him behaving like an Angel, in my mind I was like dis bros hmmm. I stayed for 2weeks and went back to Lagos without allowing him touch me ooo and the bros no mind ooo. He later invited me again dat same year, I went back to Maiduguri, became friends to many lovely people there, his friends became my friend, in fact my maiduguri people was the best… He planned engagement party with his friends one weekend and propose, I accepted only for him to come dat same night, I just told him bros pls I have locked my thing in Lagos before coming here oo, if na bcus of dis engagement ring make u no wan allow me sleep dis night, abeg take ur ring back ooo.

Fast forward to 2013: we went to the village and did some traditional rights, but before den it was hell from My own friend who introduce me to her brother but dis one na story for another day,.. We went to their village only for me to start hearing something dat same day,.. The next day my hubby called me with his whole family as if we dey village meeting, dat me and oga will be going to see someone dat dey said am not destine to have children, I said me? The whole family said yes?

I asked dem if na church dey said no, I said to dem I will never step my leg in any dibia bcus I married una son, my people Come and see fight and pressure… We went back to Maiduguri, and after 1months my hubby started asking me, u never get belle? Come and see calls from his village people, I was under pressure visiting all kinds of gyna Docs trying to conceive ooo, and dey will say nothing is wrong with me, at a point I wanted to start believing maybe am not destine to have kids… it was not easy at all, I was traveling from Maiduguri to Lagos as if I dey go market, no one knows what I was going through, sometimes my hubby comes back home beat me unnecessarilly, calls me barren woman.. Sometimes he will be on the phone with his village people talking about me right in my present, me I will just pass my own, at a point I got use to the abuse jaree… But the most beautiful part of dis story is I made beautiful friends in Maiduguri as a result of my singing, I go to church sing and praise God without anyone knowing what I was going tru inside of me, sometimes I don’t even like staying at home with my hubby bcus problem must come out.

I started avoiding him by going to church and church meetings both the ones wey concern me and the one wey no concern me just to avoid staying at home, u will always see me in the meeting even though I don’t have any contribution ooo…. It continue like dat until one day when he gathered all my box of clothes, shoes and bag, and set dem on fire I was mad, I cried like a baby, I cried uncontrollable.

Then I decide to take a walk bcus I have already started developing BP which I was hiding from my family, the torture was much, abi na when he will beat me and I still sleep outside till day break, I was trying to swallow everything bcus of who I am, I was thinking what will people say if I leave, but I see myself going down everyday.

I left the marriage after 4yrs plus, I came back to Lagos, and was trying to manage my emotions for 2yrs, and after 2yrs I got into a play play relationship with my friend, we’ve been friends for some years but nothing serious, but just few months of been in dat relationship I became pregnant and didn’t even know I was.

I was treating maleria and typhoid for 3months until I confirm it, I was dumped for some days bcus I could not believe it, my X hubby made me believe that they told him that I am not destine to have kids, dat at a point I started believing it and dat was I left the marriage so I don’t continue wasting his time.

The Gud news is I am not barren, I am a real woman and I have a very beautiful daughter which I gave birth to on the 1st of 2021…. I am a proud mum, no woman is destine to be Barren…. In al, learn to forgive and still show love to people even if u feel dey don’t deserve it….. God bless us all…

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